About the Role
A Toronto-based family with twin boys (age three) is hiring a head caretaker and team lead to be the senior practitioner for their children’s care. The role is hands-on with the boys daily and leads a small junior caretaking team in a fully staffed household. The family are open to full-time, five days a week, or a structured rota (3:1, 2:2, or 1:1). Candidates would need to be comfortable working full-time for at least 6 months to build the relationship with the children and team, then the opportunity could shift to a ROTA schedule. The ideal candidate will either be Toronto-based or willing to relocate, with relocation expenses covered by the family. Travel between residences and periodic international travel is expected.
Responsibilities
- Direct hands-on care of the boys: feeding, dressing, sleep transitions, outings, emotional support, and daily activities.
- Leading, managing, and developing the junior caretakers: schedules, standards, onboarding, and modeling practice in the day-to-day.
- Holding consistency across the team on RIE/Pikler practice, sleep, food, transitions, and communication norms.
- Direct communication with the principals and senior household leadership on what’s working and what needs attention.
- Sole-charge coverage if the principals travel for periods up to a week.
- Senior input on family decisions affecting the boys: travel and relocation logistics, school choices, transitions.
- Traveling with the family between residences and on periodic international travel.
- Stepping in on adjacent areas when needed: light meal prep, child-related errands.
- Act as the "anchor" and the lead childcare professional in the home.
- Ensure continuity of care across the caregiving team.
- Supervise and mentor other caregivers; facilitate clear communication and professional growth.
- Maintain organizational systems for daily, weekly, long-term and seasonal projects, and team schedules to ensure a predictable environment.
- Maintain clear, professional communication with the parents.
Requirements
- Has led a children’s care team — head nanny, daycare director, ECE program lead, or similar — and genuinely loves the leadership work.
- Equally loves hands-on caregiving; treats moments like wiping a child’s hands or face as an intentional, attuned moment of connection.
- Prior experience in fully staffed households; comfortable working closely with hands-on parents.
- Has worked as part of a high-trust caregiving team and finds that environment energizing.
- Holds clear, healthy professional boundaries. Communicates concerns directly upward to the principals and senior household leadership.
- Sole-charge ready: confident running the children’s care function for periods up to a week if the principals travel.
- Drives. Holds the structure of meals, sleep, medical, transportation, allergens, and routines.
- Brings senior input on family decisions affecting the boys — travel logistics, school choices, transitions, philosophy evolution as they grow.
- Comes to work calm and grounded with the ability to read energy and adjust accordingly.
- Comfortable in a detail-oriented, systems-driven household. The home runs on structure, so daily life feels calm and flows smoothly; comfort working within that is expected.
- Comfortable signing an NDA and practicing discretion as a matter of course.
- Valid U.S. Passport, Green Card, or Employment Authorization Card (EAC).
- This is a gluten-free household; one child has digestive sensitivities with an active reintroduction protocol for certain allergens (dairy, egg).
- Unscented home. Non-smokers and non-vapers only.
- Candidates should be up to date on their annual Flu shot.
- Candidates should be comfortable with a live-out set up, with separate accommodation provided when needed (e.g. during travel).
- Driver’s license required.
- NDA required.
Skills
- Deep RIE and/or Pikler practice.
- Formal training (RIE Foundations or Associate, PiklerPedagogue, or equivalent) strongly preferred.
- Experience helping other families establish stable team-and-children travel rhythms is valued.
- Sole-charge caregiving rooted in presence and respect.
- Deep understanding of child development, best practices and caregiving philosophies.
- Proven history of team leadership, organization, and household management skills.
- Highly organized, proactive, and capable of managing the complex moving parts of a high-net-worth household.
- Deep knowledge of child development, standards of care, RIE approach, next approach.
- Spanish or French.
- ECE degree.
Location
- Toronto
Work Type
- Full-time
- Rota schedule
Experience Level
- Senior practitioner
- Head caretaker
- Team lead
Education Level
- RIE Foundations or Associate
- PiklerPedagogue
- ECE degree
Salary/Compensations
- Very competitive salary, commensurate with experience and fit.
Benefits
- Healthcare stipend
- All other industry standard benefits
About the Company
- Two parents and twin boys, age three.
- The principals are hands-on parents; the right candidate is comfortable working closely alongside them.
- The boys have been raised with RIE and Pikler practices since they were six months old.
- This is a daily lived practice in the household, applied rigorously from the start.
- As a result, the boys are unusually verbal and self-aware for their age; the right candidate brings deep, fluent practice in these philosophies and can help them continue to evolve.
- The household currently operates as a collaborative team environment, and the principals are hiring this role to lead it.
- The team includes a small caretaking team, a chef team, a housekeeper, a chief of staff, and a property manager.
- A RIE coach can be engaged on an as-needed basis if helpful.
- Senior care decisions presently sit with the principals; the head caretaker will take them on in partnership going forward.
- Toronto is the family’s primary residence.
- The longer-term aspiration is to spend colder months somewhere warmer — likely California (South Bay) or Costa Rica — with periodic international travel.
- Travel could amount to three to five months a year.
- The family is still developing its travel infrastructure for moving the team and the boys; experience helping other families establish stable team-and-children travel rhythms is valued.
- Family thought partner. Working with them in the best interests of their children.
